gracias a todo muchachos la cosa es que el bototn eliminar del grid es un button colum, y no se si se aplique igual en ese caso
<asp:ButtonColumn Text="Eliminar" CommandName="Delete"></asp:ButtonColumn>
y mi rutinita para eliminar esta
Sub MyDataGrid_Delete(Sender As Object, E As DataGridCommandEventArgs)
Dim MyCommand As SqlCommand
Dim DeleteCmd As String = "DELETE from SolicitudEmpleo where SolicitudID = @SolicitudID"
MyCommand = New SqlCommand(DeleteCmd, PortalSettings.SqlConnectionString)
MyCommand.Parameters.Add(New SqlParameter("@SolicitudID", SqlDbType.NVarChar, 11))
MyCommand.Parameters("@SolicitudID").Value = MyDataGrid.DataKeys(CInt(E.Item.ItemIndex))
MyCommand.Connection.Open()
Try
MyCommand.ExecuteNonQuery()
Message.InnerHtml = "Registro eliminado"
Catch Exc As SQLException
Message.InnerHtml = "ERROR: El registro no puede eliminarse"
Message.Style("color") = "blue"
End Try
MyCommand.Connection.Close()
bingrid (SelectCommand)
End Sub
gracias de antemano